Chapter 841: Can We Forgive Unconditionally?
re hurt, don't let them get hurt by others. 。That was Qin Jingwen's only request, she would do her best for her child. 。But she couldn't control Qiao Shunchen, nor could she control the situation. All...Start when you say start, that's Qin Jingyi's speed.
"Half a month, XuanXuan you guys call grandpa out to play, your aunt can come play with you guys too, okay" "Okay, I'll go call grandpa, let's go play outside." 。"Sis, brother-in-law, you guys chat, I'll take them out to play. " 。“ Half-moon quickly ran out to find grandpa , Qiao Zixuan holding his aunt's hand steadily followed behind ” 。Qin Jingyi took the two children out, and the living room suddenly became much quieter. 。Only four of them remained sitting in the living room. 。Jiang Kai thought this was a good opportunity, a chance for him and Qin Jingwen to persuade the siblings together. 。 。"Dad and the child have both gone out, there are some things I want to say." 。“Dad, your health hasn't been good lately, and it's largely related to your mood. Qiao Yu, Shun Chen, you should know the reasons for your bad mood.” 。Not only did Qiao Yu and Qiao Shunchen know, but Qin Jingwen also understood as soon as she heard Jiang Kai's words. 。"Brother-in-law, it's Mid-Autumn Festival today, let's not talk about this topic." 。"Why" Jiang Kai was puzzled. He thought Qin Jingwen would share his opinion and see this as a good opportunity. 。But not letting him say it surprised him very much. 。"Whenever I bring up this topic, we end up arguing. Today everyone seems to be in a good mood, and I'm worried that an argument between us will ruin it for everyone." 。Qin Jingwen gave her reasons, saying that with Uncle Qiao and the children around, she really didn't want to argue with Qiao Shunchen. 。"I won't argue with you. You and my brother-in-law can say whatever you want, I will control my emotions." 。“ Jo Shun-chen heard Qin Jingwen’s reason and immediately stated his position. 。He's thought it through these days and wants to resolve this matter. 。But I need help from others, I can't get out of this on my own. 。Since the ministers all expressed their stance, there is no problem. 。"Don't worry, Winnie. If Dad comes in, we'll stop talking about this." 。Jiang Kai was surprised by Qiao Shunchen's reaction, which was a bit too enthusiastic. 。It seems Qin Jingwen is more effective than he imagined. 。Qin Jingwen didn't oppose it. Qiao Shunchen assured him that he was the one who wanted to face this matter, and at this time, even if he was unwilling, he couldn't dispel his enthusiasm. 。If Qiao Shunchen and Uncle Qiao's knot is opened, Qin Jingwen won't have anything to worry about. 。“Still the same thing, I and Winnie don't know much about what specifically happened in your family.” 。But I think if things have passed, they have passed. If you keep dwelling on the past, living in the past doesn't seem to make much sense. 。" Qiao Yu, Shun Chen 。I also know that the two of you have a knot in your hearts, and Wenwen and I don't know how to open it. 。My opinion is, no matter what happened in the past, can you unconditionally let all these things go 。Don't make Dad embarrassed, don't let everyone in the house worry about you. 。“
Jiang Kai shared his thoughts. 。Neither Qiao Yu nor Qiao Shunchen mentioned any details, so it was impossible to help by finding the root cause. 。He could only advise his younger siblings to unconditionally forgive. 。But Qin Jingwen had told Qiao Shunchen these words before, unfortunately to no avail. 。As an outsider, I can't ask too many details. So I agree with my brother-in-law's point of view. 。Qin Jingwen's words "I'm an outsider" completely excluded herself. 。This issue is actually a sensitive topic, Qin Jingwen didn't even dare to participate, there's no way Jiang Kai insisted on bringing her in. 。"Sister Qiao Yu, and..." Qin Jingwen didn't want to persuade Qiao Shunchen any further. She thought about trying to reason with Qiao Yu first; things would be much easier if she could get her on board. 。But it's inevitable that she would have to mention Qiao Shunchen in their family. The problem is, how should she address him in front of them 。Qin Jingwen hesitated for a moment. 。"On this matter, your feelings might be different from Mr. Joe's." 。Back then, you could understand your uncle's feelings to some extent, and your trauma wasn't as deep as his. 。"It's impossible for you to forget the past, but can you put it away For my sake, at my age, and for your uncle who has been lonely for twenty years because of you, please forgive him." 。Qin Jingwen knew it was easy for her to say, but it would be difficult for Qiao Yu to do. 。But their troubles would only last as long as they thought about them. Uncle Joe's troubles were not so easily overcome. 。"Wenwen, since you said so, sis will say a few words too. 。"First of all, none of us have ever treated you like an outsider. If we had, we wouldn't have told you such private things." 。Joe Yu knew that Qin Jing said that to keep a distance from Qiao Shunchen, but looking at Qiao Shunchen's attitude just now, this distance couldn't exist. 。"I've thought countless times about letting this go, but you also need to know that even if I forgive him, even if I meet Dad's every condition, my heart is still uncomfortable." 。"Things still need to be addressed at the root, and ultimately resolved from the most fundamental level. " 。
How it is fastened together, that’s how to unfasten it.
"About this matter, Qiao Yu has her own ideas. If we want to solve it, we must let her and Qiao Shunchen know all the details, otherwise they will not understand the situation and things will not be resolved." 。Qin Jingwen understood Qiao Yu's point, she guessed Qiao Shuncheng also thought so. 。Qin Jing turned her head to look at Qiao Shunchen beside her. 。"You're thinking the same way, aren't you You also feel that even if you forgive yourself, you're still uncomfortable inside, aren't you" 。“ Joe Shunchen gave his answer without hesitation, even he felt more uncomfortable than his sister and couldn't unconditionally forgive him. 。"But have you ever thought about how uncomfortable Uncle is He's been uncomfortable for over twenty years, and none of you have cared I think what you're saying is selfish, only thinking about yourselves and not considering Uncle's feelings at all. " 。Qin Jingwen didn't want to say these things. Saying them would make Qiao Yu and Qiao Shuncheng unhappy, and they might even have thoughts about her. 。But they only considered themselves and did not consider others. 。Their such selfishness made Qin Jingwen unable to control her mouth. 。"I haven't experienced it, so you might think I'm talking big." 。But if it were me, I would just stick to the facts and not dwell on this matter. At least I wouldn't dwell on it for so many years. 。"Mother is family, and father is also family." 。They hold the same importance in your minds as you do. You have hated your uncle for so many years because of what you see. 。It's unfair, I feel bad for my uncle. 。Qin Jingwen is just such a person. She doesn't bother with outsiders too much and won't make things difficult for her own family. 。She felt that Qiao Shunchen and Qiao Yu's behavior was irrational, driven by hatred. 。Although Mingming is the smartest person around, he insists on being stubborn about this matter. 。"Wenwen is right, you two siblings are too selfish" 。Let me say something you won't want to hear, what do your elders' affairs have to do with you Why are you trying to judge who is right and wrong, why are you hating 。Jiang Kai, taking a cue from Qin Jingwen's words, continued, "If Qiao Shunchen and Qiao Yu had personalities as kind as Qin Jingwen's, this matter would have probably been resolved long ago."
"We are a bit selfish, but we are the victims" 。It is precisely because they are family that they can hurt us, causing us to lose our mother at an early age. 。Joe Yu's pain may not have been as clear and deep as Qiao Shunchen's, but she was also deeply impacted. 。Let's not talk about who is right or wrong between the parents. The fact that she lost her mother has made it very difficult for her to escape the pain for many years. 。Every night, I wake up crying from my sleep, my mind filled with my mother's image. 。Even in dreams, I long to see her every night. Such a dream is also a kind of solace for my longing. 。How could someone who has never experienced this kind of pain possibly understand it 。"Your pain is much, I know." Let me know if you have any other text you'd like me to translate!。We are now allowing you to not care about these things, and to unconditionally forgive. 。“ Jo Yu... ” Jiang Kai felt like he had hit a wall. He felt that his and Qin Jingwen's thoughts were clear, but Qiao Shunchen and Qiao Yu were still focused on their own pain 。Just as he was about to continue persuading him, Qiao Shunchen suddenly spoke up, coldly interrupting his words. 。"You all don't understand this, you don't deserve our unconditional forgiveness." 。Joe Shun-chen's angry words left Jiang Kai and Qin Jingwen speechless, unable to utter a single word. 。Especially Qin Jingwen, she couldn't understand why she was still involved even though she had already thought of the result. 。Jiang Kai hadn't experienced it, so he couldn't feel it. But Qin Jingwen had already told Qiao Shunchen about her experience, and now he was saying that she couldn't understand his feelings 。So, did he care about her feelings 。Jo Shunchen's words suddenly silenced the living room. Jiang Kai's train of thought was interrupted, and Qin Jingwen had already decided not to speak again. 。Because it means nothing, because Joe Shunchen will never care about her feelings. 。At the very beginning, it was Qiao Shunchen who said he would control his emotions. 。But what about the result Is this how he controls his emotions then 。I'm sorry, Qin Jingwen couldn't accept his attitude. 。"Jun Chen, you said you can't unconditionally forgive, then what conditions do you want"Jiang Kai continued to ask, after all, he was the brother-in-law, he should be responsible and not be petty about Qiao Shunchen's unreasonable demands. 。Jiang Kai's question left Qiao Shunchen speechless. He didn't even know what conditions he wanted. 。And you, Qiao Yu 。However, Qiao Yu's answer was also silence. 。If she had known, the problem could have been solved long ago. 。And so the living room once again fell silent. 。Meanwhile, outside 。After Qin Jingyi went out, she also found that Qiao Liang's face was wrong, and he coughed more frequently. 。"Uncle, are you sick" One hand was occupied playing with the two children while the other reached out to touch Qiao Liang's forehead, worry clouding her face. 。"No, I'm fine." 。Joe Liang's heartwarming reply, warming his heart because of Qin Jingyi's concern. 。This is his daughter, his daughter cares about him, his heart is so warm it could boil a pot of water. 。But your face doesn't look good, and you've been coughing 。These days, you seem to have lost weight. Your eyes look sunken in. 。Qin Jingyi observed Qiao Liang carefully, the more she observed, the more she felt that Qiao Liang was unhealthy, and the more worried she became. 。"It's nothing, it's normal for people to have some minor ailments as they get older." 。" Joe still denied that there was anything wrong with his body. If he said he wasn't feeling well, they would all worry. " 。"Uncle, why don't you go to the hospital for a check-up Once we know the results, everyone will feel at ease." 。If anything feels uncomfortable, it's best to adjust it early. 。Qin Jingyi is no longer simply completing her mission, she's genuinely starting to worry about Qiao Liang and hopes he will cooperate and go to the hospital. 。 "There's no need for that, going to the hospital is a hassle." 。Qin Jingyi's worry in her eyes made Qiao Liang's refusal begin to waver. 。I can't bear to let my child worry about me, and I can't bear that my child studies so hard and still worries about me. 。are about my affairs, and he didn't force Shunchen's either. 。He has one requirement of me, to properly compensate Jingyi. 。“Qiao Liang smiled and answered, let alone Qin Lan, any other person would...